Yes, I know some households blow through five loads a day, but we have no children at home, no sports uniforms, no multiple beds to strip… so whither all this laundry? Someone needs to start using towels, and it’s not me.

• Too often, grilled salmon doesn’t taste like you think it will, even if it’s wild-caught and skinless. Pescatarians, beware.

• My eyes water so much in the morning, I have to mop them with Kleenex before applying makeup. First-world problems. Also, aging stinks.

• Some parents shouldn’t even be allowed to own a hamster. You know who you are. (In fairness, most moms and dads are doing their best.)

• Food hangovers are real, and they hurt.

• If we treated our Bibles like we treated our cell phones—never leave home without them, keep them in our hands 24/7 look to them for answers and directions—maybe we’d be a little bit better off as a society.

• You’re never too old to blast your playlist when cruising down a two-lane blacktop. Bluetooth rules.

• We jumped on the Instant Pot wagon, but you need a degree from MIT to even turn it on. So many panels and buttons!

• I just found out newer-model vehicles have HEATED STEERING WHEELS. What kind of sorcery is this? I’m still waiting to get one with heated seats.

• Something is wrong with a country whose armed forces have to rely on Blessing Boxes and church pantries for food.

• Why do some doctors ask patients to fill out a slew of paperwork every year? Last month I juggled a clipboard, pen, sheaf of papers, insurance cards, driver’s license and a copy of my husband’s social security card in a lobby packed with strangers, to provide information that hasn’t changed in a dozen years. Why can’t you just check a box that says, “Nope, I’m good”?

• Do you ever feel like somehow you’ve missed the whole point?

• No good deed goes unpunished, but no good intention goes unrewarded. I totally believe this.

• Why can some people can take a 30-minute nap and wake up refreshed and alert, while other people (like moi), take that same nap and wake up disoriented and teary?

• Most of us eat too much. Never miss a chance to miss a meal.

• I admire women who dye their hair red. They’re making a statement, and I don’t need to understand it. Go, gurrl.

• Fleece is a winter runner’s best friend.

• The latest trend in dying: People selecting music they want to hear on their deathbeds. Assuming we can still hear—and many studies show it’s the last sense to go—I’m sure some will go tongue-in-cheek and pick Don Henley’s “Get Over It,” or “The End” by the Doors. I’d opt for “Shambala” by Three Dog Night. It’s joyous and hopeful; there are worse ways to leave the world. (I actually put together a playlist for my post-funeral reception—hymns, praise music and Imagine Dragons for fun.)

• A bearded man without a mustache always makes me blink.

• It is entirely possible to have wrinkles, eye bags and acne at the same time. Ask me how I know.

• If you can’t have a pet, you can always sponsor one at your local humane society. By waiving an adoption fee or paying for spaying, you do a good deed without risking accidents on your favorite rug. Win-win!

• Pick up the phone when your mother calls. You’re not that busy.

Julie R. Smith, who frequently misses the point entirely, can be reached at widdleswife@aol.com.